Beyond Allowance: The Unspoken Gap

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

PLAN TO LIVE/Goals/Beyond Allowance: The Unspoken Gap

Essential Money Wisdom
for the Next Generation

It's a wonderful thing, isn't it, to think about the journey ahead for our children? They stand at the cusp of so much possibility, ready to step out and shape their own lives. And just like we taught them how to tie their shoes, how to read a map, or how to be kind to others, there’s another vital skill that helps them navigate the world with confidence: understanding money.

For many of us, learning about money was a bit like learning to swim by being thrown into the deep end. We figured it out, eventually, but perhaps with a few splashes and struggles along the way. At Plan To Live, we believe it doesn't have to be that way. We believe in giving our children – and ourselves – the tools and understanding to build a life of purpose and security, not just financial, but in every sense. This isn't about getting rich quick; it's about living rich, in experiences, in relationships, and in peace of mind.

Self Reflect

  • What does "living rich" truly mean to you, beyond just financial wealth? How might understanding money contribute to that definition?
  • Reflect on your own journey with money so far. What has been your biggest "splash or struggle," and what did it teach you?

The Unspoken Gap:
Why Financial Education Often Misses the Mark

Let’s be candid for a moment. Our schools do an incredible job teaching so many things – history, science, literature. But when it comes to the practical, day-to-day realities of managing money, there's often a quiet gap. It's not anyone's fault; it's just how things have been. Many parents, too, might feel a bit unsure about how to approach these conversations, perhaps because they themselves never received formal financial education.

The result? Young adults often step into independence without a clear map for their financial journey. They might hear snippets of advice, or learn from trial and error. But a solid, foundational understanding is often missing. This isn't a critique of anyone's efforts, but an observation of a common challenge in our society. And it’s an opportunity for us to do things differently, to empower the next generation with knowledge that truly sets them free. Because, as we’ve seen, simply wishing for financial stability isn't enough; we need to understand how money truly works in the world, and how it works for us.

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Self Reflect

  • If you could design a financial education program for young people, what would be the first three things you would teach, and why?
  • In what areas of your life have you felt unprepared due to a lack of foundational knowledge, and how might that apply to financial understanding?

Your Compass for Life:
The Plan To Live Framework (Know-Do-Review)

At Plan To Live, we believe that true growth – whether in finances, relationships, or personal goals – comes from a simple, powerful cycle: Know-Do-Review. This isn't a complicated theory; it's a practical way to approach any challenge or aspiration in life.

  • Know: First, we take the time to truly understand. This means learning new concepts, processes, and perspectives. It's about gathering the right information, clearly and simply.
  • Do: Next, we put that knowledge into action. We apply strategies, experiment, and personalize the journey. It's about taking those first, brave steps.
  • Review: Finally, and crucially, we regularly look back at our results. We adjust our goals, reset our expectations, and learn from every experience – not just the "wins," but the "lessons learned." This continuous feedback loop is where real, lasting progress is made.

This framework is your compass. It guides you, helps you adapt, and ensures you're always moving forward, even when the path isn't perfectly clear. It's about building habits, not just chasing outcomes.

Self Reflect

  • Think of a goal you've achieved (financial or otherwise). How did you naturally apply a "Know-Do-Review" cycle, even if you didn't call it that?
  • Where in your current life might a more deliberate "Review" process help you adapt and grow, especially when facing unexpected challenges?

Conclusion: Learned, Not Luck

Financial confidence is learned, not luck—and closing the “unspoken gap” starts with a clear compass: Know–Do–Review. The articles to come in this "Beyond Allowance" series translate big ideas into practical moves—income vs. expenses, budgeting, saving, debt and credit, investing, taxes, banking, the psychology of money, inflation and cost of living, diversified income, and digital safety—so progress becomes a habit, not a hope.

As you develop your own understanding, use the Socratic prompts to personalize the lessons, apply one small action now, and circle back to review what worked. Next articles will go deeper with tools, examples, and simple checklists—building the confidence to not just understand money, but to use it to design a life you’re proud of.

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